Life Flows Where the Mind Goes

We spent October creating environments that reflect who we are becoming — decluttering rooms, restoring rhythms, and making space for what truly matters.

But what happens when the clutter isn’t around us, but within us?

Our thoughts, like our homes, gather dust.

Unfinished worries, limiting beliefs, and silent self-talk can quietly crowd our mental space. And just like a messy room, a cluttered mind steals peace, creativity, and clarity.

Mindset Wellbeing is about tending to that inner environment.

It’s where awareness meets alignment — where you recognise the narratives shaping your choices and consciously choose which ones to keep.

My Approach to Mindset Wellbeing

My work in holistic wellbeing draws from years of helping people align their inner and outer worlds — through mindful space design, mindset reset, and intentional self-care.

While I’m not a clinical psychologist, my background in understanding children and young people’s mental health and counselling has shaped how I see and support emotional wellbeing.

What I share here isn’t therapy — it’s perspective.

A way of looking at life that connects the spiritual, emotional, and practical, helping us all pause long enough to ask the right questions and design routines that honour our truth.

This Month, We’ll Explore:

• How the stories we tell ourselves influence our energy and focus

• Simple mental decluttering practices to reset perspective

• The power of affirmations, gratitude, and reframing as daily mental hygiene

• Designing your “mental workspace” with the same care you give your home

You Could Start Here — A Simple Reset

Why not take a few minutes today to pause.

Write down three thoughts or beliefs that have been on repeat this week.

Now ask yourself — are they fueling your flow or fraying it?

If they’re draining, you don’t need to fight them — just reframe them.

Every shift in thought creates a shift in direction.

And where your mind flows, life follows.

Closing Reflection

Your mind is your first home.

Treat it with gentleness, honesty, and grace.

The rest of your world will follow its rhythm.

My work in holistic wellbeing comes from years of walking alongside people as they align their inner and outer worlds — through space design, mindset reset, and self-care practice.

While I’m not a clinical psychologist, my background in understanding children and young people’s mental health and counselling adds insight into how we can gently reframe thoughts and design routines that nurture peace and flow.

Think of this space as a guide for reflection, not prescription — an invitation to know yourself better, one mindful step at a time. - USI

Sacred Spaces: Aligning Spirit, Home & Rhythm

Every space tells a story — not only through its design or function, but through the intention behind it.

How we arrange our environments, manage our time, and serve others says something about how we see life itself.

October has been about exploring that relationship — how the spaces we create and the rhythms we live by affect our spirit, our peace, and our productivity. This month reminded me once again that healing, order, and purpose are not separate things. They are integrated expressions of alignment.

When our surroundings reflect who we are and what we value, even ordinary places become sacred.

1. A Kitchen Reimagined — Function with Flow

One of the most meaningful projects this month was the kitchen renovation for a senior citizen.

On the surface, it looked like a design brief. But in truth, it was a story of empathy and restoration.

By listening to his routines, understanding his physical needs, and acknowledging the family members who share his space, the design became something far deeper than cabinetry and colours — it became care made visible.

Accessibility turned into ease, light into comfort, and every chosen detail served one quiet purpose: to let life flow naturally again.

This project reminded me that design isn’t decoration — it’s discernment. It’s hearing what the body and spirit need, and responding through space.

2. Creating Order Behind the Scenes — The Productivity Footprint

Another highlight this month came from a very different kind of space: the digital one.

A new client reached out with no systems or structure in place — their business backend was non-existent, and without it, routine was impossible.

Together, we started from scratch.

We designed a foundation — a digital rhythm that reflected their goals, values, and desired flow. What emerged was more than just a system; it was a sense of balance.

Just like physical spaces, digital environments carry energy. When we integrate structure and purpose, we don’t just tidy up workflows — we reclaim peace of mind and enhance our mental health.

This was a beautiful reminder that the way we work is also part of how we live.

3. Holding Space for Healing — Supporting a Breast Cancer Survivor

The third moment that shaped my October was supporting a Breast Cancer survivor’s initiative — a walk for awareness and restoration.

Standing alongside women who have journeyed through pain, courage, and recovery was deeply humbling.

My role was to introduce another way to deliver wellbeing guidance and holistic self-care tips — practical ways to nurture body, mind, and spirit through rest, nutrition, skincare, and rhythm.

But what I witnessed was far greater: community as healing.

It reminded me that sacred spaces are not always built — sometimes, they are shared. A walk, a conversation, a moment of solidarity — all become environments of grace.

4. Reclaiming My Own Space — From Work Mode to Rest Mode

This month wasn’t only about helping others find alignment — it also invited me to realign my own rhythm.

For years, my workspace sat at the heart of my home — a constant reminder of unfinished tasks and endless ideas. But as my seasons shifted, that arrangement began to weigh on me. Long hours at the desk blurred the line between work and rest.

So, I made a simple but transformative change: I replaced my desk with a comfortable chair, soft lighting, and a small side table. What was once a workstation became a reading nook — a sanctuary where I could unwind, reflect, and reconnect.

That small redesign reminded me that even within our own walls, we can choose restoration over routine.

Our environments should evolve with us — to honour who we are becoming, not just who we’ve been.

The Deeper Thread

From the home to the digital desk to the open road, each encounter this month carried the same truth — space reflects spirit.

Every transformation began with listening, and every solution emerged from care.

Sacredness isn’t limited to temples or prayer rooms.

It lives in the way we respond to need, the kindness we extend through design, and the systems we build that allow others to breathe again.

When we align our values with our environment, everything begins to flow — gracefully, naturally, purposefully.

Closing Reflection

This October, I saw once again that wellbeing is not a single act but a lifestyle of integration.

Every space — physical, emotional, digital, or spiritual — holds potential to heal when we bring intention into it.

As we move into November, our focus shifts from the space around us to the space within us — because life flows where the mind goes.

And when spirit, space, and mindset align, wholeness becomes not a pursuit, but a way of life.

Spaces That Heal: Designing for Flow, Energy & Ease

Every space tells a story.

Some stories speak through light and layout; others whisper through comfort and care.

And sometimes, a space can hold a kind of healing that words alone cannot give.

This October, I had the privilege of completing the redesigning of a kitchen for a senior citizen. It wasn’t just about cabinetry or countertops — it was about listening. In every conversation, I reminded myself to be a heart with ears — hearing not only what was said, but what was felt.

This wasn’t a one-size-fits-all project…. indeed no personalised design is. It was about understanding his rhythm — how he moved through his day, what his body needed, and how the space could honour both his independence and his family’s shared moments. It was about ‘flow’: form meeting function, practicality meeting dignity.

Healing through design

When we think of healing, we often imagine hospitals or retreats. But healing begins at home — in the environments that hold our everyday lives.

A healing space is one that meets us where we are and helps us return to centre.

For this kitchen, healing looked like:

• Reorganising shelves for ease and reach, to reduce strain and encourage confidence.

• Designing open layouts for movement and visibility, especially for shared use with living and visiting family.

• Using calm tones and natural light to create emotional warmth — because we heal better in spaces that feel like belonging.

These small choices create flow — not just in how we move, but in how we feel.

And that’s the essence of spaces that heal: they restore what life has taken out of rhythm.

Designing for the person, not the plan

Design becomes powerful when it listens.

When we design for someone, we impose our vision. When we design with them, we co-create wellbeing.

Understanding who uses the space — their body, their habits, their joys and their challenges — transforms the outcome.

For this project, that meant thinking not only about cabinetry height or countertop materials, but about family moments: grandchildren visiting, shared meals, laughter, and the comfort of familiarity.

Healing isn’t sterile or silent — it’s full of life, love, and lived experience.

When space supports spirit

A healing space gives more than function — it gives freedom.

• Freedom to move without fear of falling.

• Freedom to reach without strain.

• Freedom to breathe and belong.

And that freedom matters at every age.

As World Spine Day (Oct 16) reminds us, posture and movement are deeply linked to vitality.

A space designed for flow encourages movement that strengthens rather than strains, while also supporting mental clarity and emotional balance.

Healing spaces remind us that wellbeing isn’t just what we do — it’s what we dwell in.

The silent power of environment

Research continues to show what we intuitively know: the environment around us influences our emotions, energy, and behaviour.

• Light affects mood and circadian rhythm.

• Colour can either soothe or overstimulate.

• Scent and sound can reduce stress or increase calm.

• Order creates mental spaciousness, while clutter quietly adds tension.

Each element in our environment is like a note in a song — when tuned with care, it creates harmony that the body can feel and the mind can rest in.

A gentle reminder

Healing doesn’t always require a miracle. Sometimes, it simply needs a moment — a decision to adjust what surrounds us so that it better supports who we are today.

So take a look around your space.

Ask yourself: Does this room still reflect my rhythm? Does it serve my season?

If not, perhaps it’s time to realign your environment with your spirit.

Because sometimes, a healed life begins with a healed space.

✨ Because all of life is integrated — spirit, mind, and body.

This is at the heart of what The Wellbeing Cognoscente is about as a business. Your Holistic Wellness is our highest value.

*** See References Resource for your further reading and research Here.

Protect Your Yes: How Rituals of Care Create Healthy Boundaries

Some boundaries are spoken — a polite “no,” a quiet pause before you agree.

Others are lived.
They’re the small, steady choices we make each day that protect our energy, identity, and peace.

Skincare, though often treated as a vanity task, can be one of those boundaries.
A ritual of care that teaches your mind to stop, your body to breathe, and your spirit to remember that you matter too.

Every ritual needs room to breathe. Whether it’s a bathroom counter cleared of clutter, a quiet corner with your mirror and morning light, or a simple tray holding your essentials — space shapes ritual. It tells your mind, “this is where care begins.”

Why rituals of care matter

When we think about boundaries, we tend to think in terms of time and people.
But your body needs boundaries too — moments when it’s allowed to repair, replenish, and reset.

During National Work Life Week (6–10 Oct) and Back Care Awareness Week (7–12 Oct), we’re reminded that wellbeing doesn’t start in a calendar; it starts in how we care for ourselves within it.
Boundaries built through ritual — like a morning skincare routine or a mindful nighttime cleanse — help reinforce rhythm and balance.

These are not just aesthetic choices; they are physiological resets.
- When you wash your face slowly, your nervous system calms.
- When you moisturise, your touch signals safety to the body.
- When you breathe deeply between steps, your stress hormones ease.

What looks like a few minutes of skincare is, in fact, a few minutes of regulation.

Your skin as a mirror of balance

Your skin is your body’s largest organ — and its most honest storyteller.
It reflects hydration, sleep, stress, hormones, and environment.
As the seasons shift into autumn, the air cools and dries, pulling moisture from the surface of the skin.
If you’ve noticed tightness, flakiness, or dullness lately, that’s your skin asking for help — and attention.

For women in peri- or post-menopause, hormonal changes can also thin the skin and reduce elasticity, leading to dryness and sensitivity.
For men, daily shaving, environmental exposure, and stress can lead to irritation or uneven tone.
The answer for both isn’t more product — it’s the right rhythm of care.

I absolutely love this combo…

The mind-skin connection

Stress and skin are deeply connected — and that’s why World Mental Health Day (10 Oct) sits so naturally within this week’s rhythm.

Research continues to show that chronic stress increases inflammation and weakens the skin barrier.

In other words, your thoughts affect your face.

That’s also why routines like skincare work: they give the mind structure, something predictable and safe.

In an unpredictable world, that small act of consistency signals calm to your nervous system — it’s a physical meditation.

Beyond products — building relationships

We don’t sell skincare; we build relationships.

Because healthy skin, like healthy living, takes understanding, patience, and presence.

Every person’s skin has a story — shaped by genes, climate, stress, and habits.

Through consultation, we learn your story, your rhythm, and your needs, helping you find what truly supports your skin and spirit — whether that’s a simple cleanser, a nourishing night cream, or a ritual that helps you reconnect to yourself.

This month also marks Breast Cancer Awareness Month, reminding us that self-care is not superficial — it’s sacred. The same hands that tend to our face and skin can also perform life-affirming checks, nurturing the body that holds our spirit. Make room for this practice too. It’s one more way to protect your yes.

Create a Self-Care Corner

Your skincare routine deserves a space that supports your spirit. Try these small shifts to make your environment part of your ritual:
- Add light: Natural light in the morning or a warm lamp at night helps signal your body’s rhythm.
- Contain calm: Use a tray or basket to keep products organised — visual order creates mental ease.
- Engage the senses: A soft towel, a calming scent, or a small plant helps your space feel grounded and intentional.

It’s not just where you do your skincare — it’s where you return to yourself.

A gentle reminder

When you protect your yes — through time, through rest, through care — you’re not being selfish.

You’re preserving your peace so you can show up more fully.

So tonight, as you cleanse your face or massage your moisturiser, do it slowly.

• Not to chase perfection, but to practice presence.

• Not just for your skin, but for your soul.

✨ Because how you care for yourself becomes how you care for your world.

Your Space, Your Spirit:

Honouring Older Persons Through Space.

Why Environments Matter

When we talk about wellbeing, we often go inward — our mindset, our values, our physical health. But there’s another dimension we sometimes overlook: the spaces we live and work in.

Your environment is not neutral. It constantly speaks to you, shaping how you feel, how you think, and how you show up in the world. A cluttered room can mirror a cluttered mind. A carefully designed workspace can spark creativity and focus. A warm, welcoming home can anchor a family’s rhythm.

Every environment tells a story. The question is: does yours reflect the story you want to live?

Why environments matter

• They influence mood. Research in environmental psychology shows that light, colour, and layout directly impact our emotions. Bright, airy rooms uplift. Cramped or dark spaces can drain energy and motivation.

• They impact productivity. Disorganized spaces scatter attention. In contrast, intentional layouts reduce “decision fatigue” and support flow — the state where work feels natural and absorbing.

• They reflect our inner world. The state of your space often mirrors the state of your spirit. And reshaping one can begin to heal the other.

Practical ways to align your space and spirit

1. Start with light. Natural light is one of the most powerful mood boosters. Open the blinds. Shift your desk closer to a window. Where sunlight can’t reach, use warm lamps instead of harsh overhead lights.

2. Declutter with purpose. Don’t aim for perfection. Focus on removing items that no longer serve you. A single clear surface can free your mind to breathe.

3. Create intentional zones. Let spaces tell your body what to do. A prayer nook signals stillness. A reading chair signals calm. A standing desk signals work mode. Ritualising these zones helps you shift gears with ease.

4. Bring in life. Add plants for grounding, art for inspiration, and textures (like soft throws or wooden surfaces) for comfort. The sensory details around you matter.

The deeper connection

Understand Your Season

When we design or reset our environments, we’re not just arranging furniture. We’re shaping how the mind interprets life and how the spirit inhabits it.

• The mind interprets space, the spirit inhabits it. The mind notices clutter, light, or order and translates those cues into emotions like stress, calm, or focus. The spirit, however, seeks something deeper — peace, meaning, and presence. When space is intentional, the mind relaxes, and the spirit has room to breathe.

• Space becomes sacred when it reflects rhythm. Neuroscience shows our brains thrive on cues. A tidy desk in the morning signals focus. A soft-lit corner in the evening signals rest. These rhythms aren’t just practical — they carry spiritual weight, reminding us of who we are and how we want to live.

This is why space is never neutral. It can either pull us into chaos or invite us into calm. It can make us forget our values — or bring us back to them. When we treat our spaces as partners in wellbeing, the ordinary becomes sacred.

Because when space supports spirit, wellbeing isn’t just a practice — it becomes a way of life.

Honouring older persons through space

This week also marks the International Day of Older Persons (1 Oct) — a reminder that wellbeing is lifelong and that environments must evolve with us. For older adults, whether at home or in the workplace, thoughtful design can mean the difference between strain and ease, isolation and belonging, stress and peace.

• At home, spaces that adapt — swapping a rigid desk for a supportive reading chair, reducing clutter for safety, adding light for visibility — can protect dignity and encourage rest.

• In the workplace, inclusive design matters just as much. Ergonomic seating, flexible setups, and environments that welcome every age ensure that older employees can thrive, contribute, and feel valued.

When we create spaces that honour each season of life, we acknowledge not just physical needs but the spirit within — the wisdom, creativity, and legacy that older persons carry.

Next Steps for You

Take a look at one corner of your space today. Ask yourself: Does this reflect the life and spirit I want to nurture — in this season? If not, start small. Swap one object. Clear one shelf. Adjust one chair. Small adjustments ripple outward.

✨ This October, we’ll keep exploring Your Space, — how intentional environments can transform not just your surroundings, but the way you live within them - Your Spirit.

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Fuel With What Feeds You

Self-Care Is More Than Skin Deep

Every business has a human behind it. Every office has a face, a smile, a presence that carries the work forward. And every one of us deserves to step into the day feeling confident — not worried about brittle hair, dull skin, or the changes happening inside our bodies.

That’s why we are intentional about preaching, teaching, practicing, and promoting self-care. Because all of life is integrated. When your skin and hair feel cared for, you carry less stress, you show up with ease, and you move through your day with one less thing to worry about.

This week we focus on fueling yourself with what feeds you — inside and out.

Women in Perimenopause & Menopause

Hormonal changes in this stage of life are not just “little shifts.” They’re real, and they’re visible:
- Up to 30% of collagen is lost in the first 5 years after menopause — skin becomes thinner and less elastic.
- Sebum (oil) production decreases — leaving skin drier and hair more brittle.
- Hair follicles shrink — leading to shedding, thinning, or texture changes.

This can feel unsettling, but it doesn’t have to mean the end of glow.

How to Support Your Skin

Think of your skin like a favourite fabric — with time, it needs gentler washing, richer conditioning, and more mindful handling.
- Since joining the 5th Floor Gang, I have graduated to the Mary Kay TimeWise Repair Range and found it is designed with exactly this in mind. Its Volu-Firm Complex strengthens elasticity, boosts hydration, and softens the appearance of lines.
- A good night cream and eye cream become non-negotiables, not luxuries. They work while you sleep — because skin heals best at rest.

How to Support Your Hair

Hair changes too — but natural oils are one of the simplest ways to fight back.
- Our in-house brand, OnyinyeByTWC Botanical Hair Oil, blends herbs and oils like hibiscus, moringa, and chebe, which not only strengthen strands but also nourish the scalp where growth begins.
- A gentle scalp massage with oil is more than care — it’s a ritual that reduces tension and reminds you to slow down.

Inside-Out Fuel

Supplements can make a visible difference:
- Omega-3s help keep skin hydrated from within.
- Collagen peptides support elasticity and firmness.
- Biotin and B vitamins encourage healthy hair and nail growth.

Think of them as daily deposits into your body’s “self-care bank.”

Men — Because You Deserve Care Too

Self-care isn’t just for women. Men’s skin and hair change with time too — often in quieter but noticeable ways.

- Beards with grey often become coarse, wiry, and dry.
- Skin under the beard can flake, itch, or look dull.
- Stress and environmental exposure (sun, shaving, pollution) show up as fine lines and tiredness around the eyes.

Beard Care

- The OnyinyeByTWC Beard Oil softens texture, conditions grey strands, and moisturises the skin beneath so beards look polished, not patchy.
- A daily few drops are enough — and it leaves a subtle sheen that feels professional, not heavy.

Skin Care

- Our clients swear by the Mary Kay Men’s Range. It is built for men’s skin, which is about 25% thicker than women’s and produces more oil. A simple cleanser + moisturiser with SPF protects skin daily, while an eye cream reduces puffiness and fine lines.

Why Oils and Rituals Matter

Natural oils are some of the oldest, most trusted forms of care:
- Jojoba and argan oils mimic the skin’s natural barrier.
- Hibiscus and moringa are packed with antioxidants to fight stress.
- Fenugreek supports circulation to the scalp, encouraging growth.

When worked into a ritual — a bedtime scalp massage, a few drops in your beard after a shower, or a nourishing night cream before lights out — these small practices become signals of self-respect.

And rituals have a way of sticking, even when motivation is low.

Confidence Is Fuel

Confidence isn’t about perfection. It’s about knowing you’re showing up as your best, whatever season of life you’re in.

When your skin is nourished and your hair is cared for, that confidence frees you to focus on bigger things — your work, your family, your goals. That’s what self-care does: it takes one worry off your plate, so you can step out lighter.

Final Thought

Self-care is not indulgence. It’s a way of saying: I matter, too.

We believe in making self-care practical, intentional, and integrated — because your whole life flows better when you’re well.

📅 Why not book your personalised consultation and let’s build a routine for your season — one that nourishes, protects, and fuels your confidence. Just tap the calendar sign or use the contact us link below.

Featured Products This Week

- Mary Kay TimeWise Repair Range
- Mary Kay Men’s Range
- OnyinyeByTWC Botanical Hair Oil
- OnyinyeByTWC Beard Oil

Learn more about the products here: BodyByTWC

Checklist and Reference Download Here

Reclaim Rest as Readiness: Week 3

Why Rest Isn’t Optional — Especially in This Season

As the light softens and days begin to cool, our environment shifts in ways that affect the body, skin, and mind. The sun’s intensity may taper off, but UV rays persist. Nights grow longer; humidity drops; the air can pull moisture from skin. Internally, many of us wake to the reality that we’ve pushed too hard, with little recovery.

Rest—real rest—is how we readjust. It allows the body to regulate hormones, reduce cortisol, repair and regenerate skin overnight, and detoxify gently. It’s not laziness—it’s strategy.

Rituals of Rest — Skin & Self

Evening Unwind (Screen-off Ritual):
• Dim lights, turn off screens, light stretching or breathwork.
• Supports melatonin, eases cortisol, primes skin repair.

Hydrating Night Hair Ritual:
• Use Onyinye Conditioner before bed, massage scalp.
• Seals moisture, soothes scalp tension, promotes rest.

Bi-Weekly Skin Reset:
• Use Mary Kay Charcoal Mask once every 10–14 days.
• Detoxes impurities, soothes the skin barrier.

Morning Hydration & Light:
• Cleanse, moisturise, apply SPF, and let in daylight.
• Hydration + light support circadian rhythm and mood.

Products of the Week

After a successful event this past weekend at the Mary Kay Seminar to start off our new year, here I share my selfcare products to get me off to a great new week: my personal pamper session

• Onyinye Conditioner — for nourishing hair care that signals reset.
• Mary Kay Charcoal Mask — detox and refresh for your skin and spirit.

Rest Tips for Peri-/Menopausal & Mature Skin

• Use richer, cream-based moisturisers.
• Space active ingredients to prevent irritation.
• Add SPF daily, even in colder weather.
• Prioritise rest based on how your body feels.
• Gentle care supports long-term health and glow.

Final Thought

Your rest is not lost time. It is your renewal.

When you allow yourself real rest—rituals, recovery, reset—not only does your skin show the glow, but your whole being does. This week, let rest be the foundation of how you move forward.

Call to Action

At BodyByTWC, we believe skincare isn’t just a shelf—it’s a relationship.

If you'd like to explore what your skin really needs (especially in seasons of change), book your complimentary reset ritual consultation here:
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Nourish & navigate Week 2

Protect Your Face — Build Routines That Resonate

Why Face-Centric Routines Matter — Especially Now

As we settle into September, the seasons are shifting again. The air is cooler. The breeze bites just a little more. The sun may not be as fierce—but its UV rays still penetrate. And the skin that catches every moment of it? Your face.

Unlike the rest of your body, your face is always exposed. It’s the first to encounter the day and the last to rest. It faces: sunlight, wind, cold, pollution, sweat, blue light, and hormonal shifts.

And for many—especially women navigating perimenopause or menopause—these external changes collide with internal shifts like:
- Loss of collagen & elasticity
- Increased dryness & sensitivity
- Slower cell turnover
- Breakouts from hormonal fluctuation

But this isn’t just about women. Men need face care too. Their skin is structurally different—often thicker and oilier—but still deeply affected by climate, stress, shaving, and lack of routine.

This week, we’re shifting the spotlight to the face—not as vanity, but as a site of honour, resilience, and exposure.

Weekly Skin Checklist: Protect the One Face You’ve Got

1. Cleanse Gently – Use a mild cream or foaming cleanser daily.
2. Deeply Hydrate – Apply hydrating serums and creams.
3. Add Actives Slowly – Include peptides, retinol, or antioxidants with care.
4. Always Use SPF – Even on grey days or indoors.
5. Reset Weekly – Mask, exfoliate, or steam—don’t skip the reset.

Featured Products of the Week

• TimeWise Miracle Set (3D Complex): Hydrates, brightens, protects, and improves texture.
• TimeWise Repair Set: Firms, lifts, and nourishes mature skin.
• Mary Kay Foundation with Moisture + SPF: Hydration meets daily defense.
• MK Men’s Collection: Cleanser, eye cream, shave foam, aftershave gel, and moisturizer — effective and simple routines for men.

Face & Flow: Try This Week’s Reset Ritual

1. Cleanse — morning and night, especially after long days or screen exposure.
2. Hydrate & Seal — layer creams and serums suited to your needs.
3. Protect with SPF — always.
4. Reset once a week — mask, steam, or refresh with a calming ritual.
5. Ask your skin what it needs — and listen before you layer. 6. Proper daily application - cleanse, pat dry, eye-cream, apply from light to thick starting with your serum, supplement, moisturiser.

Final Thought

Self-care isn’t gendered. And it’s not cosmetic. It’s protective. It’s restorative. It’s personal.

As the season changes, so should your skincare. This week, care for the skin that meets the world every day—with clarity, calm, and consistency.

Call to Action: Let’s Build Your Routine Together

At BodyByTWC, we don’t just sell skincare. We build relationships — because no two faces are the same.

Want to know what your skin truly needs? Book a complimentary consultation. We’ll walk through your lifestyle, skin goals, and current state—then match you with products that support your season of life, for as long as you want to.

Click here to book your session

Your face deserves care. Not once- but as a way of life.

Also, don’t forget to download your Week 2 Resources and Skin-care checklist here

Until next blog, Be Well.

USI.

Nourish & Navigate Self-Care Series

Let Your Body Lead

Let Your Boundaries Hold!..

Start With Your Body

As the seasons shift and life picks up speed, many of us feel the pressure to jump right in—resetting routines, setting goals, filling calendars. But if the last few months have taught us anything, it’s that sustainable change begins from the inside out.

This September at BodyByTWC, we’re not asking you to pause.

We’re inviting you to go forward—but with your body leading the way.

Why Your Body Is the Best Starting Point

Your body holds the score, yes—but it also holds your wisdom.

It knows when you’re overwhelmed, even if your mind hasn’t caught up.

It responds to stress long before you write it down in your journal.

That’s why practical self-care starts here:

With the body you wake up in. With the signals it’s been trying to send.

With the rhythm you were designed to follow—not force.

Let’s Get Practical: The “Body Inventory” Check-In

Take a few moments this week to notice:

• When you naturally feel most energised (Morning? Late evening?)

• Where you hold tension (Jaw? Shoulders? Scalp?)

• What you crave often (Silence? Sugar? Stillness?)

• What rest actually feels like for you

This isn’t indulgent—it’s intelligent.

This body-awareness becomes the filter through which you make decisions, set boundaries, and protect your yes (that’s Week 2!).

Want to go deeper? Explore this free Self-Care Wheel Tool to track what’s been overused, undernourished, or forgotten.

The Product That Supports This Ritual

One of the first places we feel physical tension—but rarely treat—is the scalp.

Enter the Onyinye Wild Roots Hair Range.

This is more than hair care—it’s a sensory self-care ritual designed to support:

• 💆🏽‍♀️ Scalp circulation and follicle health

• 🧖🏾‍♀️ Natural hair growth with botanical oils

• 🪷 Grounding your nervous system with every massage

Daily Practice:

Use 3–5 drops of the hair oil in the morning or evening.

Massage gently into the scalp using your fingertips.

Let this 3-minute ritual be your moment to check in.

Ask your body: What do I need today?

👉🏽 Buy the Onyinye Wild Roots Range here

Final Thought

Self-care isn’t always soft.

Sometimes, it’s a decision to listen first—before you act.

This week, before the calendar takes over, come home to your body.

Let it speak. Let it lead. Trust Your Spirit.

Then let everything else follow.

This Week’s Self-Care Prompt:

“Today I honour my body’s wisdom and let it guide my pace.”

Write it. Say it. Post it on your mirror. Live it.

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We believe that healthy pores and roots equals healthy hair and boosted confidence.

Till next week, look after yourself.

USI.

Your Reset Rhythm: Designing a Wellbeing Strategy That Works

Balance

“It isn’t about doing everything equally. It’s about finding the rhythm that works for you.”

-USI

Why Rhythm Matters

Think of life like music. Every piece has highs and lows, fast beats and slow pauses, moments of intensity and quiet rests.

When it comes to wellbeing, most of us try to run on someone else’s tempo—copying the habits of colleagues, chasing productivity hacks online, or following routines that don’t fit our stage of life. No wonder it feels exhausting.

True wellbeing doesn’t come from imitation. It comes from integration: designing a reset rhythm that honours your values, your wiring, and your current season.

The Four Reset Personalities

Over time, I’ve noticed that people tend to fall into one of four “reset personalities.” These aren’t rigid categories, but they help us understand our natural tendencies. Knowing yours can help you design a strategy that sticks.

1. The Sprinter

Thrives on bursts of energy, then needs full downtime to recover.

Common signs: You feel unstoppable when “on,” but easily burn out without rest.

Strategy: Plan recovery days after high-output periods. Schedule buffers in your calendar before and after big projects.

2. The Steady Pacer

Prefers consistent routines and small, daily resets.

Common signs: You thrive with structure, but feel off balance when routines are disrupted.

Strategy: Build non-negotiables into your calendar—your walk, prayer, gym, or journaling—so you always have grounding practices to lean on.

3. The Reflector

Recharges best through solitude, reflection, and personal space.

Common signs: Social events leave you drained, and you feel restored after quiet or creative time alone.

Strategy: Schedule solitude without guilt. Treat time alone as a necessary appointment, not an optional luxury.

4. The Connector

Refuels through people, collaboration, and shared energy.

Common signs: You light up when brainstorming with others, enjoy team activities, and feel low when isolated for too long.

Strategy: Weave social resets—coffee chats, family dinners, peer support groups—into your week. Connection sustains your momentum.

Why This Matters

So often, wellbeing strategies fail because they aren’t designed for you. They’re borrowed. They’re one-size-fits-all. And when they don’t fit, you feel like you’ve failed—when really, the system wasn’t built for your rhythm in the first place.

Discovering your reset personality helps you:

• Align wellbeing with your natural wiring

• Anticipate what drains and restores you

• Build a strategy that lasts longer than a 30-day challenge

• Reduce guilt by validating what you truly need

• Respond to stress without defaulting to unhealthy coping habits

When you know your rhythm, you stop fighting yourself—and start flowing with who you really are.

Designing Your Reset Rhythm

Here are 4 steps to help you build your reset rhythm today:

Step 1: Identify Your Personality

Are you a Sprinter, Steady Pacer, Reflector, or Connector? (You may be a blend.)

Step 2: Choose Core Practices

Pick 2–3 reset practices that align with your personality. Keep them simple, realistic, and enjoyable.

Step 3: Create a Weekly Reset Plan

Block time in your calendar—just as you would for a meeting. For Sprinters, this could be “recovery Sunday.” For Pacers, daily 15-minute walks. For Reflectors, a weekly journaling hour. For Connectors, Friday lunch with a friend.

Step 4: Adjust with Seasons

Your rhythm may change with life seasons. A parent with young kids may need short resets. Someone post-retirement may prefer longer reflective practices. Adapt your strategy as life shifts.

Final Thought

Your reset rhythm is your power source. It’s what allows you to sustain your work, your relationships, and your own wellbeing.

Because at the end of the day, it’s not about keeping pace with everyone else. It’s about finding the tempo that lets you thrive.

✨

Thank you for journeying with us through our August Workplace Wellbeing Series. We hope these weekly reflections have not only been helpful in the moment, but will remain a resource you can revisit again and again whenever you need a reset.

As we step into September—with back-to-school routines, the shift in seasons, and the close of summer holidays—we’re excited to bring you a brand new focus: the September Self-Care Series.

This next series will explore practical ways to anchor your wellbeing during transitions, create sustainable routines, and care for yourself in the midst of shifting demands. Because every season brings change, but self-care keeps you steady.

📖 Stay tuned for September’s Self-Care Series: Nourish & Navigate

Until next blog, Be Well!

USI

Still on Your To-Do List? 5 Self-Care Habits for the Overloaded

“If you don’t make time for your wellbeing, your body and mind will eventually schedule it for you.”

Overloaded? You’re Not Alone

In today’s working world, “busy” has become a badge of honour. The emails never stop, deadlines are back-to-back, and the line between work and life feels more like a blur than a boundary.

For entrepreneurs, professionals, and small teams, the pressure is magnified: “If I don’t do it, it won’t get done.” And while that may feel true in the moment, the reality is this: running on empty eventually costs more than pausing to refuel.

When work demands too much, self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a strategy. It’s how you keep showing up with clarity, creativity, and consistency.

🛠 5 Self-Care Habits That Work in Overloaded Seasons

1. The Micro-Break Rule

Every 90 minutes, pause for at least 5 minutes. Step away from your desk. Stretch. Sip water. Look out of a window.
📌 Why it matters: Research shows micro-breaks restore concentration, reduce stress hormones, and improve problem-solving. It’s not wasted time—it’s maintenance for your brain.

2. Boundaries on Notifications

Set “on” and “off” hours for checking emails and work chats. Use “Do Not Disturb” features to reclaim quiet time.
📌 Why it matters: Constant notifications keep your body in a low-level state of fight-or-flight. Boundaries reduce cortisol spikes, protect your sleep, and retrain your brain to focus deeply.

3. Fuel for Focus

Swap energy drinks or sugary snacks for whole foods that release energy slowly—nuts, fruit, yoghurt, or herbal teas.
📌 Why it matters: Sugar highs = energy crashes. A steady fuel supply keeps your mood balanced and prevents the “afternoon fog” that makes work take twice as long.

4. Body in Motion

Build in “movement snacks”—a 10-minute walk, a set of squats, stretching your shoulders, or dancing to a favourite song.
📌 Why it matters: Physical movement clears tension and resets your nervous system. It also oxygenates the brain, lifting your energy and creativity.

5. The Reset List

Before bed, write down 3 things that grounded you today. It could be as simple as “I laughed,” “I cooked dinner,” or “I called a friend.” Aim to repeat them tomorrow.
📌 Why it matters: The brain remembers patterns. By recording and repeating positive resets, you train yourself to anchor in habits that restore balance—even in busy seasons.

🔍 Why It All Matters

It’s easy to believe the lie that self-care is something you do after the work is done. But in reality, when the workload is highest, that’s when self-care is most vital. This is my personal testimony and I learned it the hardest way.

In a few short years, I:
- Moved countries and started a new business in the middle of a pandemic (by default)
- Lost all 3 of my dogs within months—and wasn’t there to say goodbye
- Buried my father just as the pandemic was ending
- Lost my home and started a new job (in employment, while still building my business), on the very same day I moved out
- Then, on another single day, 7 months later, lost that job and my younger brother - All in the space of 5 years

And through it all, I pushed. I kept going in silence. I told myself that if I just worked harder, I could outrun the pain, that I could grieve in silence and by helping others I was helping myself (lies).

Until my body stopped me. It stagged an intervention.

One morning, I woke up ended up in hospital with the entire left side of my face frozen. I had burned the candle at both ends, and my health bore the cost.

That experience taught me this truth:
- Ignoring self-care doesn’t make you strong. It makes you brittle.
- Recovery takes longer than maintenance. Burnout can steal months, while small resets preserve your energy daily.
- Sustainable energy sustains your impact. Your wellbeing fuels not just your work, but your relationships and the people who rely on you.

- Spiritual development is the foundation that holds up all other parts (emotional, physical, relational, financial). A strong spirit =resilience.

- Work remains after you stop (even when you are your work, with no successors or employees to carry on).

Self-care isn’t indulgence—it’s survival. It’s also the foundation for any meaningful success.

💬 Final Thought

When work demands too much, the answer isn’t to push harder—it’s to reset smarter. Because at the end of the day, burnout is far more expensive than balance.

Until next blog, work smart and please, be well.

Shalom Peace.

USI.

See 📚 References & 🔗 Further Reading Here

Beyond Beanbags: Building A Culture Of Care

“Wellbeing shouldn’t be a marketing headline. It should be a lived experience.”

Pausing Moments – Gratitude

Recently, another pause was required. Not because I wanted one, but because life required that I give my full attention elsewhere.

The old me might have pushed through, trying to “stay productive” while running on fumes. But I’ve learned to practice this truth: there’s strength in the pause.

Stepping back gave me the space to breathe, process, and return—not at the same pace as before, but better for the break.

That’s the thing about genuine wellbeing—it’s not about powering through at all costs. It’s about having the freedom, and the culture around you, that allows for a reset when you need it most.

And that’s exactly what this week’s topic is about: moving from performative gestures to creating a workplace culture that makes space for people to step back, recover, and return stronger.

🏢 When Wellness is Cosmetic

We’ve all seen the trend—breakout rooms with beanbags, branded water bottles, or a “Wellness Wednesday” email. They look good in photos. They tick the box for recruitment ads. But behind the scenes, teams are still running on fumes.

When wellbeing is performative, it becomes a perk—a privilege offered to some, often inconsistently, and rarely with any integration into the company’s daily rhythm.

🌱 What a Culture of Care Looks Like

Real workplace wellness isn’t an initiative. It’s an environment.

In a true culture of care:

• Breaks aren’t questioned—they’re encouraged

• Leaders model healthy boundaries

• Workloads are managed, not glamorised

• Support is proactive, not reactive

• Mental health and physical health are given equal value

This shift transforms wellbeing from a token gesture into a core value.

🔍 Why It Matters

When wellness is woven into the culture, the benefits go far beyond “happier employees.” You see:

• Retention – People stay where they feel safe and supported

• Productivity – Focused, rested teams achieve more with less burnout

• Reputation – Word spreads about workplaces that walk the talk

• Innovation – Space to rest sparks creativity

✅ Steps to Build a Culture of Care

Action & Why It Works

Audit workloads regularly - Prevents burnout before it starts

Encourage boundaries - Reduces overwork and models balance

Flexible spaces & schedules - Supports diverse needs and working styles

Train leaders in wellbeing - Creates top-down support

Integrate feedback loops - Keeps policies relevant and employee-led

💬 Final Thought

Wellbeing shouldn’t be an occasional treat. It should be part of the fabric of how an organisation operates.

Because at the end of the day, culture isn’t built in a breakout room—it’s built in every interaction, every policy, and every choice about how we treat our people.

Until next week, keep building!

The Energy Room

“The pace of productivity shouldn’t come at the cost of your people’s peace” -TWC

From Concept to Care: A Tribute to Visionary Leadership

Every great environment starts with a question: “What do our people need most right now?” For this forward-thinking CEO, the answer was clear—a space where his team could pause, reset, and restore themselves without guilt or performance pressure.

Commissioned with purpose and designed with intention, the Energy Room became more than a project—it became a quiet revolution. We were entrusted to transform a modest, sized area into a sensory retreat that honours the human behind the job title.

Like a gentle exhale in the middle of a crowded day, this room now offers space to:
- Regain clarity
- Reconnect with oneself
- Re-enter work renewed

From an idea, to design sketches, to a full wellness minded installation, it now stands as a visual and cultural reflection of his belief that people matter—and they deserve room to breathe.
This room didn’t just fill space. It fulfilled a value.

Our People First: Evident in every space!

What Disrupts Our Flow?

Think of wellbeing like a system under quiet strain. Then comes a delay—an unresolved tension, an ignored need, a noisy demand. One after the other, these “small things” compound. And before long, our rhythm is off.

At work, this can look like:
- Emotional depletion
- Rising conflict
- Diminishing creativity
- Fatigue masked as ‘low productivity’

Sometimes, all it takes to release the tension is space.

What Makes an Energy Room Transformative?

This isn’t about perks. It’s about permission. The Energy Room at this company includes:

• Multi-level seating with floor cushions – Flexible use: rest, meditation, low-steam engagement
• Darts, cards, puzzles, pool table – Team bonding or solo stress relief
• Books on architecture, engineering, design – Inspiration + cognitive break
• Plants + ambient lighting – Sensory softening, mood support, and oxygen circulation
• Stationary bike + dumbbells – Movement for nervous system reset and energy boost
• Modesty screen – Multi purpose shelving unit to provide privacy to a rest corner for deep breath, shut eye’s or quiet moments

Small Space. Big Culture Shift.

This room has become more than a visual statement. It's a cultural invitation—to pause without guilt, to breathe between tasks, to be human in a performance-obsessed world.

“Every workplace can offer something. Even a 1m² corner with intention can change the emotional climate of a team.”

— TWC

What You Can Try

Don’t wait for a full office makeover. Start with small resets that honour yourself or your team:

• Reset chair + eye mask + diffuser – Home office or shared space
• Wall decal: “This is a pause-friendly space” – Conference room or staff lounge
• Reset Timer: 15-minute silent break calendar hold – Your team’s shared calendar
• Wellness Kits: tea, snacks, grounding tools – For teams or freelancers

Final Reflection

An Energy Room reminds us that flow doesn’t come from force—it comes from freedom. Let’s build spaces that support the whole person: their mind, their spirit, and their sense of self.

What would you call your own ‘Rest & Reset’ space? Drop us a line in the comment section.

Till next time, keep well.

Living The Reset

Application Of:

Integration & Proactive Identity

A Disrupted Flow

I stood still, watching the water rush past at the dam. Steady. Powerful. Purposeful.
Then I noticed it — a small piece of wood lodged awkwardly at the edge, catching debris as it went by. Just a twig, really. But it changed everything.
The flow adjusted. The energy shifted. And suddenly, the water was bending around what didn’t belong.

It reminded me of us.
Of how even the smallest disruptions — overlooked habits, unhealed thoughts, lingering voices — can create blockages in our emotional, physical, or spiritual flow.

We often think it takes something big to derail us. But integration, the theme we’ve been exploring all week, is fragile when neglected. And just like the dam, your rhythm can shift subtly when something foreign takes root.

What Can Disrupt the Flow?

Here are a few “twigs” that may be interrupting your integration — from smallest to most significant:

Micro-disruptions (the small things that pile up):

• Saying “yes” when you mean “no”
• Skipping rest because of guilt
• Passive scrolling during moments of discomfort
• Ignoring small bodily signals (tightness in your chest, fatigue, irritability)

Mental & emotional blockers:

• A lingering fear of being “too much” or “not enough”
• Old narratives inherited from family or culture
• A belief that joy must be earned
• Replaying past missteps instead of processing them

Major disruptions:

• Grief (unprocessed or ongoing)
• Burnout from long-term over-functioning
• A medical diagnosis or recovery journey
• A change in identity (career, motherhood, separation, relocation)

Integration is a Returning

Living the reset means you don’t ignore the disruption — you notice it.
And then you gently return.

To your breath.
To your values.
To your “why.”

Sometimes the reset is not a fresh start, but a course correction — a way to remind yourself that wholeness doesn’t require perfection. It simply asks for presence.

Why Not Try This…

• Water Watch: Next time you’re near flowing water (even from a tap), pause. Reflect on what you’re carrying that might be disrupting your flow.
• Name the Twig: Journal 1–2 small habits or thought patterns that disrupt your rhythm. Ask: Where did this come from? What would I like to replace it with?
• Mini Moment of Stillness: Once a day, take 5 minutes to sit, stretch, or breathe with no goal — just presence.
• Reflection Prompt: 'Where in my life do I feel like I’m forcing flow? Where could I allow ease instead?'

Continue Your Reset

Our Weekly Rhythm Template is still available for download.
It’s designed to help you plan from who you are becoming, not just what needs to get done;

• navigating away from time blocking to choosing priorities that honour who you are becoming;

• away from ‘should’ and ‘ought’ to ‘what is’ and ‘what is to be’.

• More importantly, honouring the space between with your deliberately curated process.

  👉🏾 Download Your Free Copy Here!
  Complete it at your pace — and if you feel called, reach out for coaching or join us for our September cohort of Taking Your Life Back.

Closing Words

Disruptions don’t always mean disaster.
Sometimes they’re just signals that it’s time to pause, clear space, and choose again.

So as you move into this week:
Don’t strive to be perfect.
Strive to be aware.
And in your awareness, choose grace.

Because your life — just like the river — was always meant to flow.

-USI.

AUGUST PREVIEW:Resilient at Work

August is calling us to pause — not in retreat, but in radical re-alignment. This month, we’re exploring what it truly means to be Resilient at Work — not just performing well, but living well, even in the middle of deadlines, decisions, and daily demands.

Whether you’re leading a team, launching a vision, or simply showing up each day in a high-stress role, this series is for you.

We’ll unpack small shifts that support your body, spirit, and mind — including workplace design, nervous system care, burnout recovery, and leadership that prioritises rest. You’ll also discover how self-care doesn’t only start at home — it can start at your desk.

If you’ve ever said, “I just need five minutes to breathe,” this month is your permission to take them — and to design your work life to honour them.

See you there!

Unrushed Reset - Week 4

Living The Reset

Integration and Proactive Identity

You’ve paused. Reflected. Reconnected.

Now, it’s time to carry the reset forward — not as a checklist, but as a way of being.

In Week 4, we turn our attention to living the reset — allowing our insights from the past weeks to settle, take shape, and gently shift how we show up.

Integration doesn’t happen overnight. It’s slow, layered, and deeply personal. But when we choose to live intentionally — with rhythm and self-honour — we begin to bridge the gap between what we know and who we are becoming.

This week is an invitation to become proactive in your identity — to cultivate alignment between your values, your needs, and your next steps.

What Integration Looks Like

Integration is not perfection. Its presence. It’s a returning — again and again — to the small, rooted practices that anchor us in our truth. It’s not about doing more. It’s about doing what matters. And doing it on purpose.

Here’s what integration can feel like:

• Being able to name your needs without guilt.

• Choosing rest without explanation.

• Saying no without fear.

• Making space for joy without waiting for permission.

• Moving through your day with less urgency, more clarity.

You begin to notice when you’re off-kilter — and you know how to realign.

You no longer chase peace — you practice it.

💫 Reset Pathways: 4 Living Identities

You may find yourself resonating with one (or more) of these integration pathways — different ways people begin to live their reset based on how they’re wired or where they are in life.

1. The Quiet Steward – Internal Integrator

This person values internal harmony. They may not speak loudly about their process, but they are deeply committed to living in alignment.

Practices:

• Daily “pulse checks” — 3-min check-in with body, mind, and soul

• Curating music or reading that aligns with your values

• Using a quiet anchor phrase: “I return to what matters.”

2. The Brave Chooser – Boundaried Builder

This person is actively unlearning old patterns and bravely choosing a new way — even when it’s uncomfortable.

Practices:

• Saying “no” even when you feel bad — and sitting in the discomfort

• Listing what you’re keeping vs. what you’re letting go of

• Practicing honest conversations with trusted people

3. The Sacred Planner – Ritual Maker

They thrive on routine and find freedom in structure. For them, integrating looks like ritualising their values.

Practices:

• Weekly planning with space for rest, movement, and joy

• Sacred mornings — even if just 10 minutes of quiet

• Creating visual reminders (calendars, sticky notes, check-ins)

4. The Courageous Seeker – Rhythm Explorer

This person is learning to trust themselves again. They explore what fits by experimenting, adjusting, and reflecting.

Practices:

• Try one new wellbeing rhythm this week — then journal your experience

• Dance, stretch, or walk as a daily check-in

• Embrace flexibility without losing intentionality

🌱 Spiritual Anchor:

To live the reset is to build on solid ground. Not the shifting winds of pressure, perfection, or comparison — but the grounding of truth, grace, and daily alignment.

Spiritual integration doesn’t mean doing more spiritual things — it means letting truth shape how you show up in the mundane.

It’s not about how loud your faith is — but how deep it roots, just as the building is only as solid as it’s foundation.

“The wise man builds his house on the rock…” (Matthew 7:24, NIV)

💡 Why Not Try This?

Living the reset means shaping your days with awareness. Here are some prompts and micro-practices to try this week:

• Name your top 3 values — and ask: Where do I live these daily? Where do I ignore them?

• Map your week with intention — one moment of joy, one moment of rest, one space to grow

• Reflect in the evenings — not what you did, but how you felt

🔔 Ready to Live Your Reset?

If this final week has resonated with you, we’d love to support you beyond the blog.

We’ve created a free downloadable Weekly Reset Rhythm Template — a gentle, customisable guide to help you stay grounded, intentional, and aligned as you continue your journey.

💛 Get your free copy delivered straight to your inbox.

Just click on the link below, leave us your best email with the caption ‘free download’, and we’ll send it your way — along with curated monthly wellbeing prompts and early access to future tools from The Wellbeing Cognoscente.

👉 Download your Reset Rhythm Template

Let your rhythm be sacred. Let your pace be yours.

You’re not behind. You’re just on your way.

Closing Reflection:

The reset doesn’t end here.

It simply changes shape — from pause to practice, from noticing to becoming.

This week, may you take what you’ve learned and live it.

Not for anyone else. Not to prove anything.

But because you are worth the rhythm.

And your life is sacred ground.

References and Further Reading:

1. James Clear – Atomic Habits - https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits

2. Brené Brown – The Gifts of Imperfection - https://brenebrown.com

3. The Bible (NIV) – Matthew Chapter 7:24

4. Nedra Glover Tawwab – Set Boundaries, Find Peace https://nedratawwab.com

5. Greater Good Science Center - https://greatergood.berkeley.edu

Living The Reset - Week 3

Reclaiming Joy…

One Small Spark at a Time

Last weekend, we explored what it means to reclaim joy — not as fleeting happiness, but as an anchored rhythm rooted in who you are.

We offered personality-based reset pathways to help you reconnect with yourself — creatively, reflectively, and playfully.
So now we ask…

Which one of those pathways resonated with you most?
If you haven’t explored them yet, or you’re still unsure which one feels most like you, now might be the time to pause, revisit, and reflect. The joy you’re looking for is likely hidden in the wiring you already carry.

(You’ll find free personality tools linked in Week 3’s Unrushed Reset blog — they’re still there, waiting to meet you.)

Why This Matters:

Intentional joy resets your nervous system.
It grounds you in the present moment, softens your inner critic, and makes space for laughter, rest, or even tears that finally feel safe to release.

This is why micro-moments matter. They don’t change everything, but they change something.

Why not try this…

The “Spark & Save” Exercise:

1. Set a 10-minute timer.
2. Choose a joyful micro-activity that aligns with your energy and personality:
 - Expressive: Sing or dance to a song you love.
  - Reflective: Write a paragraph to your younger self.
  - Systematic: Organize something small — just one drawer, one shelf.
  - Grounded: Touch nature — water your plant, open the window, or walk barefoot for a moment.
  - Nurturing: Cook, sip tea, or prepare something comforting from your cultural heritage.
3. Capture it: Snap a picture or jot a sentence in your journal. Let it become your Joy Anchor — a small reminder that joy lives in repetition, not rarity.

Reflective Prompt:

“What joy practice did I forget I love?”
“How can I make it part of my rhythm again?”

Integration Tip:

Commit 15 minutes this week — just for your joy. Not for productivity. Not for someone else.
Just for you. Put it on your calendar. Name it something playful. Honour it like a sacred meeting with yourself.

Till next week, enjoy living in your ‘Unrushed Reset’ practices.

Unrushed Reset - Week 3

Creative Spark & Self-Connection

This week, we invite you to reconnect with joy not as a luxury, but as an inner resource - a bright - often buried under duty, survival, or emotional fatigue.

Reclaiming Your Joy

We often chase happiness thinking it’s the goal — the reward for getting life “right.” But happiness is a guest: it shows up when conditions are favourable, when boxes are ticked, when things go to plan. Joy, on the other hand, is different.

Joy is quieter, deeper. It doesn’t always need a reason. Where happiness depends on what's happening around you, joy can exist in spite of it. Joy might meet you in a moment of stillness, a burst of colour, a silly memory, or the freedom of creating something just for yourself. It doesn’t ask for perfection — just presence.

But joy can be hard to access when we’re worn thin or stuck in survival mode. That’s why this week, we’re gently turning inward — to notice, nurture, and reclaim what brings you back to life. Not because you’ve earned it, but because you’re allowed to feel it.

Reset Pathways by Personality

Leah – The Reflective Introvert

Leah finds joy in peace and colour. She doesn’t need a party to feel alive — a freshly brewed cup of tea, a walk through a tree-lined path, or discovering a forgotten journal entry can fill her heart. But lately, life has felt grey. So this week, Leah experiments with colour. She starts wearing bolder hues and lights a candle that smells like her favourite holiday. Slowly, joy tiptoes back in.

Mindset: Joy doesn’t have to be loud to be real.

Self-Care: Choose one sense (sight, smell, touch) to stimulate intentionally each day.

Emotion Tool: Make a list of quiet joys — things that lift your spirit without overstimulation.

Creative Spark: Create a ‘colour joy board’ (physical or digital) inspired by images that spark a smile.

Dayo – The Curious Extrovert

Dayo thrives on laughter, playlists, and making people feel seen. But lately, even his voice notes feel heavy. The usual hype isn’t working. So this week, Dayo pauses. He chooses one creative project just for fun — a funny reel, a dance challenge, a playlist called “Joy, Please.” He remembers what it feels like to make something without needing an outcome.

Mindset: I’m allowed to do things just because they make me smile.

Self-Care: Block out 20 minutes of joy time this week — no productivity required.

Emotion Tool: Use music to shift your energy — build a “feel better” playlist with songs from joyful moments.

Creative Spark: Make something to share — a funny post, an uplifting quote, or a joy memory in story format.

Malika – The Highly Adaptive Overthinker

Malika is the planner. She holds space for everyone else and often forgets to ask what she needs. Joy used to feel like a luxury. But this week, she lets go. Just a little. She watches clouds with her daughter, doodles during a Zoom call, and giggles at an old comedy. She realises joy doesn’t make her weaker — it recharges her to show up fully.

Mindset: Joy helps me carry life better.

Self-Care: Schedule one “non-goal” moment this week — no fixing, no solving, just being.

Emotion Tool: Ask yourself each day: What made me smile today?

Creative Spark: Start a Joy Jar — each time you experience a joyful moment, write it down and collect it.

Tomi – The Brave Primary Parent Over 45

Tomi juggles so much that joy often feels like something for later. But recently, a quiet Saturday morning changed everything. Their son was drawing cartoons and asked Tomi to join. They laughed over stick figures and old stories. And for once, there was no multitasking. Just shared joy. That moment became a doorway back to themselves.

Mindset: Joy is not a distraction. It’s a declaration of wholeness.

Self-Care: Reclaim one childhood joy (drawing, puzzles, music) and do it without apology.

Emotion Tool: Joy check-in — ask, Have I laughed today? Have I played?

Creative Spark: Host a mini joy moment with family or self — music, pancakes, game night, or solo paint-and-sip.

Why Joy Matters

Joy isn’t a reward — it’s a resource. It’s the spark that reminds you who you are beyond duty, stress, or circumstance. In a world that often celebrates hustle, joy becomes a quiet rebellion. It reminds you that you're more than your productivity — you're a person with colour, laughter, silliness, stillness, and softness.

Neurologically, joy is healing. It reduces stress hormones, increases serotonin, and helps regulate our emotional state — which in turn improves focus, sleep, and even digestion. It’s not fluff. It’s function.

But joy also requires permission. So this week, we’re practicing giving it to ourselves — in small, beautiful, imperfect ways.

Why Not Try This?

Practical Reset Practices for Reclaiming Joy

Make a Joy Map: Think back to moments when you felt most alive - who were you with, what were you doing, how did it feel? Sketch them or note keywords. What's one way to recreate a moment this week?

Make Something Without Outcome: Paint, doodle, voice-note a poem, sing in the shower - not for anyone else, just for the joy of it.

Create a Joy Playlist: Include songs that lift you emotionally or remind you of joyful seasons. Bonus if you dance to them in socks.

Start a Joy Box or Folder: A digital or physical space where you collect joyful memories, photos, notes, smells, or reminders.

Here are some free resources for you to explore Your Personality Wiring:

- https://www.16personalities.com

- https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

- https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

- https://high5test.com

Reflection Prompt

"Where has joy felt absent lately, and what might I do to welcome it gently back in?"

Spiritual Anchor

Principle: Joy is a strength - not a distraction.

This joy is not performance-based. It's a gift - rooted in knowing you're not alone, not forgotten, and not defined by your last difficulty.

Let it ground you, even as you rebuild your rhythm.

"Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength." -Nehemiah 8:10 (NIV)

Living The Reset -Week 2

Bringing Rhythm and Restoration to the Daily In-Between

We often think the reset happens in the extremes - during burnout or breakthroughs.

But real transformation is often born in the middle.

This week, we invite you to slow down long enough to notice:

- What's consistent but invisible?

- What emotional rhythms are shaping your day?

- What small acts are keeping you going, even if no one else sees?

This is the space where preparation becomes protection - and where rhythm becomes resilience.

This Week's Reset Practices in Action

Why not try the following frameworks...

1. Name + Need Check-ins

Take 2 quiet minutes today to pause and ask:

- "What am I feeling right now?"

- "What might I need?"

Write it down, speak it aloud, or text it to yourself.

It's not about fixing. Just noticing.

2. Rhythm Mapping (Revisited)

Draw a simple circle or divide your planner into three parts:

Morning - Midday - Evening

Note what's working, what feels heavy, and where a small shift might help.

Then, consider one gentle reset:

- Swap your afternoon caffeine for herbal tea

- Add calming music during a transition moment

- Take a 10-minute after-dinner walk to support digestion and restore calm -> Harvard Health:

https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/why-a-walk-after-a-meal-is-good-for-you

3. Grounded Nourishment

Pick one grounding meal from your culture - or try one from our Global Nourishment Guide - to prepare or enjoy this week.

Let food be a reminder of where you come from - and how your body can feel safe again.

Download the guide here (PDF): [insert link]

Why This Matters

Our middle ground - the stuff between the highs and lows - is where habits live.

And habits shape identity. When we tend the middle, we:

- Reduce stress build-up

- Reconnect with our bodies

- Honour our present needs, not just our past coping

Why Not Try This Before the Week Ends

Write a note to your future self:

"Here's what I'm learning about what I need between the extremes..."

Tuck it into your journal, your fridge door, or your notes app.

Let it be a promise you keep.

Anchoring Reflection

Sometimes the wisest move isn't to push forward - but to pause.

To ask what path leads to peace. To choose the way that nourishes your soul, not just your schedule. In those quiet choices, we find rest - not just for the body, but for the whole self.

Sources for Further Reading

- Harvard Health: See link [Read Here]

- Global Nourishment Guide Download Free Copy Here 

Principles to live by

🌀 The Unrushed Reset Series

Tending The Middle:

From Coping → to Preparing

A steady shift from survival mode to intentional resilience.

🌿 Introduction

Stress is a given — but burnout doesn’t have to be.

This week’s reset invites you to notice how your body holds pressure, and how your life might be asking for a new way to respond.

Hormonal changes, emotional cycles, and environmental demands all contribute to how we show up. The key is not to power through, but to prepare gently for what’s likely to come.

“You can’t wait until life isn’t hard anymore before you decide to be kind to yourself.” – Lori Gottlieb

You don’t need to wait for a breakdown to build a buffer. You can start with presence. And prepare from there.

🧭 Reset Pathways by Personality

We continue with the same four personalities — because reset isn’t one-size-fits-all. And neither is stress. We also have alternative ingredient options from various parts of the world in our Resource of the week at the end of the blog so don’t miss that. Download your free copy now.

1. Leah – The Quiet Processor (Introvert)

Leah feels stress before she even names it — in her breath, her jaw, the way she curls inward when things pile up.

She used to isolate when overwhelmed. Now, she’s learning to reset through sensory grounding: calming soundscapes, lavender oil on her wrist, soft blankets on her lap. These are not indulgences — they’re tools to re-center her nervous system.

According to The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk, “the body remembers stress — even when the mind is quiet.” Grounding through sensation restores inner safety.

Leah’s Reset Practice

• Mindset: “Quiet can be powerful — but I don’t have to carry everything in silence.”

• Self-Care: Build a sensory toolkit (music, oils, textured fabrics).

• Grounding Tool: 4-4-8 breath (Inhale 4, Hold 4, Exhale 8) – Harvard Health

• Nourishment Shift: Magnesium-rich foods (e.g. dark leafy greens, almonds, seeds)

2. Dayo – The Expressive Connector (Extrovert)

Dayo’s energy used to be his superpower. But lately, even joyful interactions leave him frayed. He’s realizing that exposure isn’t the same as expression.

He’s learning to create boundaries around his energy — not to withdraw, but to recover. As Psychology Today puts it, “the extrovert burnout loop is real — and recovery is vital.”

Dayo’s Reset Practice

• Mindset: “My presence is powerful — and worth protecting.”

• Self-Care: Pre-schedule social breaks (without apology).

• Grounding Tool: Walking or dancing between tasks — movement clears cortisol

• Nourishment Shift: Potassium-rich foods (bananas, avocados) for adrenal support

3. Malika – The Flexible Anchor (Ambivert)

Malika carries silent stress — the kind that creeps into her digestion, skin, and sleep. She’s high-functioning but often under-nourished.

She’s learning to treat nourishment as maintenance, not a reward. According to Mindful.org, eating without multitasking improves digestion, calm, and awareness.

Malika’s Reset Practice

• Mindset: “My needs matter — even when they’re quiet.”

• Self-Care: Two daily meals without devices or multitasking

• Grounding Tool: Gentle self-tapping or massage across shoulders and jaw — EFT Tapping Evidence

• Nourishment Shift: Balanced protein + complex carbs to stabilize blood sugar and mood

4. Tomi – The Brave Primary Parent Over 45

Tomi’s body has been whispering: heavier fatigue, disrupted sleep, unexpected mood dips. Hormones are shifting — and yet the responsibilities haven’t eased.

In The Hormone Repair Manual, Dr. Lara Briden explains: “Perimenopause isn’t a decline. It’s a transition that demands replenishment.”

Tomi is learning that preparation now saves her from shutdown later. She’s prepping snacks for herself, blocking recovery time, and learning to say no before she’s depleted.

Tomi’s Reset Practice

• Mindset: “I’m not lazy — I’m in a season that requires different energy.”

• Self-Care: Track one symptom this week (fatigue, irritability, sleep)

• Grounding Tool: Legs-up-the-wall pose (10 mins) before bed — Yoga Journal

• Nourishment Shift: Add healthy fats (e.g. salmon, flax, olive oil) + iron-rich foods (lentils, spinach)

Reflection

Stress isn’t always avoidable — but your relationship with it can evolve.

This week, consider:

• Where does stress live in your body?

• What rhythms or cycles tend to bring it on?

• How can you nourish yourself before you crash?

“You don’t have to earn recovery. You can prepare for it — gently, and without apology.” – The Wellbeing Cognoscente

When we pause not just physically, but spiritually — we discover that rest is sacred. It is in quietness and trust that our strength is renewed. As you nourish your body and rewire your patterns this week, don’t forget to return —to the rhythm of grace that grounds you beyond circumstance.

“This is what the Sovereign Lord, the Holy One of Israel, says: ‘In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength.’”

— Isaiah 30:15 (NIV)

Sources & Further Reading

• Van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score

• Harvard Health: Relaxation Techniques

• Psychology Today: Extrovert Burnout Loop

• Mindful.org: Mindful Eating

• Lara Briden, ND: The Hormone Repair Manual

• Yoga Journal: Restorative Poses

• EFT International: Scientific Research

• Holy Bible – Isaiah 30:15 (NIV)

From Awareness to Alignment

Gentle ways to practice clarity, compassion, and creativity in daily life

You’ve paused. You’ve reflected. You’ve seen yourself in one of last week’s stories — maybe in Leah’s quiet, Dayo’s motion, Malika’s balancing act, or Tomi’s caregiving strength.

Now what?

Living the reset means applying that awareness in your real life — without overwhelm or perfection. Just presence, rhythm, and gentle return.

This week isn’t about getting it “right.”

It’s about noticing what’s real for you… and realigning with it, softly.

TRY THESE 4 RESET PRACTICES THROUGHOUT THE WEEK

1. Reset with Words – Morning or Night

“What’s true for me right now?”

Take 3 quiet minutes to answer this.

Write in a journal. Type a note. Record a voice message.

No judgment. Just truth. Let the question meet you where you are.

2. Reset with Movement – The Body Check-In

Set a one-minute timer. Ask yourself:

• Where is tension sitting?

• Can I breathe softer into that spot?

• What does my body need right now?

Respond with a stretch, walk, shake, or stillness. Honour what you hear.

3. Reset with Visuals – Draw, Doodle, or List

Fold a page in two:

• Left: NOW – How do I feel?

• Right: NEXT – How do I want to feel?

Use colours, symbols, or words. Then circle one shift you can make today.

4. Reset with Connection – “Name + Need” Practice

When you feel something rising emotionally, pause and complete this sentence:

“I feel ____, and I need ____.”

This brings clarity to chaos.

Use it with yourself, a partner, a colleague, or a child. It builds trust and honesty.

Optional Weekly Reflection (on Sunday or your quiet day)

Ask yourself:

• What felt good this week?

• What drained me?

• What surprised me?

• What do I want to carry forward?

This isn’t about fixing.

It’s about gently returning to what aligns.

💭 Final Thought:

Clarity is a kindness.

To see yourself honestly — without judgment — is the foundation of transformation.

This week, may you honour your truth and take one small step in the direction of your becoming.

💾 Grab Your Free Practice Guide

If you’d like to keep these reset practices close — offline or on the go — I’ve created a free printable version just for you.

This gentle guide is a one-page reflection worksheet that includes:

• All 4 reset rhythms from Week 1

• Simple, spacious prompts to help you reconnect with yourself throughout the week

✨ It’s perfect to tuck into your journal, planner, or daily routine — no pressure, just presence.

👉 Download your free Week 1 Practice Guide here

-USI